Text scams: Why you shouldn’t answer ‘Hi, How Are You?’ text messages from strangers

“Hi, how are you?” might seem like an innocent message—but it’s often the first step in a scam. These texts are designed to start conversations, build trust, and eventually exploit victims. Understanding this tactic can help you avoid falling into a long-term scam trap.

Key Takeaways

• “Hi, how are you?” texts are often scam openers. Scammers use friendly, generic messages to start conversations and build rapport with potential victims.
• Replying confirms your number is active. Even a simple response signals that your phone number is valid, increasing your chances of being targeted again.
• Scams escalate over time through trust-building. Fraudsters may apologize, act friendly, and gradually introduce phishing links, requests for personal data, or financial scams.
• The safest response is no response at all. Ignoring, blocking, and reporting unknown messages is the most effective way to avoid becoming a target.

“Hi, How Are You?” Text Scam Explained and How to Avoid It

Have you ever received a random text message from a stranger greeting you with a single “Hello” or something like “Hi, How are you?”

Despite seeming innocuous at first, this general conversation starter could launch a bigger plan to scam you. In this article, we explore the dangers of answering this type of unsolicited text and offer some tips and tricks on how to avoid the scammers’ net.

Let’s begin by discovering how scammers and cybercriminals can get a hold of your contact information. Here are some of the most common ways they obtain your mobile phone number:

• Data breaches: large-scale breaches impacting online platforms and organizations can hold vast amounts of customer information, including phone numbers.
• Public sources: phone numbers can easily be found in public directories or on social media platforms where users share contact details.
• Purchases: scammers buy lists of phone numbers from data brokers or hackers
• Social engineering and phishing: Scammers trick users into giving away their contact information

Scammers send this type of text to begin conversations or relationships with victims. They set the bait with a friendly greeting such as “Hi, How are you?” in an attempt to manipulate recipients into divulging confidential data. The scammer will be extremely friendly and even apologize, all to build rapport with the recipient and eventually ask for money and sensitive information.

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What are the risks of responding to ‘Hi, How Are You?’ texts

1. Exposure of personal info. Scammers might attempt to extract sensitive information from you

2. You become a target for more sophisticated attacks. Responding to an unsolicited text message tells scammers that your phone number is active, allowing them to target you with scams and phishing attempts.

3. Phishing schemes. Extended interaction gives a scammer time to phish for sensitive information including bank details and passwords.

4. Malware. Scammers may also send you links that lead to credential-stealing Trojans and spyware to compromise your device, accounts and data.

5. Identity Theft: Attackers may attempt to siphon personal information and impersonate you in various identity theft crimes.

6. Financial loss. Replying to unsolicited text messages is usually linked to fake investment opportunities and requests for money from the sender.

7. Emotional and physical distress. Engaging with unsolicited texts can lead to emotional stress, particularly if the sender begins threatening you or uses other intimidation tactics.

7 Ways to Best Handle Unsolicited Texts

1. Don’t respond. If you don’t recognize the number and it’s unsolicited, ignore and delete the message.
2. Block the number. Your smartphone should have the option to block unknown numbers to prevent additional messages from the scammer.
3. Report the message: Report the number to your mobile carrier and the FTC.
4. Don’t click on links. Never click on links in messages from unknown sources, as they could lead you to malware or fake websites that harvest your information and passwords
5. Never transfer money or share sensitive data. No matter what the unknown sender says or promises you, never give into demands for money or send gift cards.
6. Use Security Software. Install a security solution on your device to protect against threats stemming from unsolicited messages
7. Use Scam detection tools. Unsure of a request received via unsolicited texts? Ask Scamio, your personal scam detector assistant, about it.

Scamio is free and available on Facebook Messenger, WhatsApp, and your web browser. You can also help others stay safe by sharing Scamio with them in France, Germany, Spain, Italy, Romania, Australia, and the UK.

FAQs

Can a scammer do anything if I reply to a text?

Yes. Replying to a scam text confirms your number is active, which can lead to more scam messages or your number being sold to other fraudsters. While a single reply won’t hack your phone, continued interaction can expose you to phishing, fraud, or social engineering attacks.

How to tell if a text is from a scammer?

Common signs of a scam text include messages from unknown numbers, generic greetings (“Hi” or “Hello”), urgent requests, suspicious links, and offers that seem too good to be true. Poor grammar, requests for personal or financial information, and pressure to act quickly are also red flags.

What text scams are going around?

Current text scams include “wrong number” scams, fake delivery notifications, bank or account alerts, job and task scams, and impersonation messages from companies or government agencies. Many now use AI-generated messages to sound more natural and convincing.